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Let’s walk you through the process of creating a tailor-made solution for you! We’ll start off with some basic questions.
More about this mini Self Assessment
We’ve helped thousands of parents who contemplated divorce or were separated to make the logical decision to either stay married or get divorced.
We want to be clear. We are not pro marriage or pro divorce. We are pro helping YOU to make logical decisions that will help to move FORWARD in life as seamlessly as possible. We are unbiased and will always remain neutral. We are here to support you while you navigate through this divorce process.
If you decide to stay married, great! We will help you further explore and determine what you need to do.
If you decide to divorce, our mission at Irooze is to help you reduce the emotional pain and cut the legal costs.
Many people believe that divorce is only about kids, money and the law. But it is not. There is a lot more involved that we know you need to pay attention to now, earlier in the process. We believe that early intervention and methodically planning your divorce is critical to an amicable divorce.
Let’s start off with an analogy of your life. Your life is like a puzzle. Every piece of the puzzle represents a different part of your life- such as, emotional, financial, spiritual, career, parenting, self, physical. The pieces fit together now as you see an image. Whether you like the current image or not, you still have an image. However, once you think of divorce, the pieces of this puzzle will start to fall apart and the image you once saw no longer exists.
Something is broken. Something is not working. Something needs to be fixed.
Then, your goal is to make logical decisions and choices that will help you figure out how to put all these pieces back together so that you can see an improved image of the new you and your new life.
This is what we help you do
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These questions were carefully designed for a reason. For pure results, it’s important that you answer honestly.
This is your journey to self discovery that invites you to make decisions and choices that will help you put all the pieces back together into one cohesive whole.
By completing this 5-minute mini assessment, we will provide you with a clearer picture of your challenges. You will be provided with the opportunity to schedule a complimentary Strategy Call with a Divorce Coach. We are certain that you will discover something new about you, your thoughts and the things that you need to attend to in handling the process of deciding whether to stay married or, whether to divorce.
The full assessment with regular progress check-ins is available to all members of the Irooze app. We will provide you with more details.
Our commitment is that everything you do in Irooze allows you to remain anonymous. We respect your desire to remain 100% confidential. We will also never share any of your information.
We’ve been in your shoes. We understand what you’re thinking about and what you’re going through. Our focus is not on who you are but rather, how we can help you find solutions that are specific to your needs.
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START YOUR MINI
SELF ASSESSMENT
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Are you a:
Mom
Dad
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What is your status?
Contemplating divorce
Separated
Divorced
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What experience do you have with divorce?
My parents had a nasty divorce
My parents had an amicable divorce
I have heard horror stories from friends & family
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Have you tried mediation?
Yes, and it’s going well
Yes, but it’s not going well
No, I hired a litigation lawyer
No, the other parent does not want to go
No, the other parent hired a litigation lawyer
We are exploring this option but don’t know where to start
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How did you hear about us ?
Facebook
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I was referred to you by
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How many children do you have?
What are the ages of your children?
We would like to point out that even though we tailor our program to parents, you are most welcome join our community and participate in the assessment.
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Which country are you in?
Which province/state are you in?
Other Country & State
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We predominantly serve parents in USA & Canada.
Tell us in one sentence how you feel right now.
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Now, let’s dive deeper to get a better understanding of what’s going on in your life right now so that we can explore if & how we can help you.
When you complete this mini self assessment, you will have the opportunity to schedule a complimentary strategy call with a Divorce Coach.
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Do you have a support system?
Select all that apply:
Friends
Family
I have a therapist
I am thinking of getting a divorce coach
What is a divorce coach?
I am too embarrassed to ask for help
I prefer to stay under the radar for now
I am window shopping
I don’t want anyone knowing that I am thinking about this
I don’t need a support system- I am fine on my own
Other
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
Myself
Select all that apply:
I want to move forward in my life- I am looking for someone to help me think this lakki.
I tend to want to control the relationship and it’s not helping us at all.
I feel like I lost my self identity and want to rediscover myself.
I want to start the divorce process – I don’t know where to start and who to speak with
I would like things to get better in my relationship - I am looking for solutions.
Recommended to me (friends, family, therapist)
I am just exploring
I feel confident about this and I am not doubting myself at all
Other
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My kids
Select all that apply:
How do I explain the reason for the divorce to my children in an age-appropriate way?
I am deciding if this is the right time for the kids.
How do I divorce with the least negative impact to my children?
How will my kids handle and cope with the divorce?
I am a stay-at-home mom/dad- could I or should I continue doing that?
I am wondering if & how I am equipped do this alone as a single parent.
I am not sure if I am comfortable and/or capable to be a solo parent.
I wonder if the other parent can handle being a single parent.
I don’t need help in this area
Other
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
My Mindset
Select all that apply:
I think that I have some work to do to improve
No matter what comes up, I am optimistic
I feel a lot of pressure
My mind is racing
I am struggling with a lot of issues
I have more sad days than happy days
I am ready to learn and challenge myself
I am ready and willing to change, if I need to
I am looking for strategies to help me cope with my current situation
I think that I’m in a good place now and I don’t need help in this area
I am not sure I am emotionally stable to make a move
I feel anxious, lonely and/or helpless
I wonder/worry if my community and family will judge me
I feel like a failure
I feel trapped
I feel that we both need to change but we are stuck
I feel confident about this and I am not doubting myself at all
Other
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
How are you feeling right now?
Select all that apply:
😄 Happy
😢 Sad
😠 Angry
😟 Anxious
😌 Content
😎 Confident
😌 Relieved
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
How do you want to be feeling in 3-6 months?
Select all that apply:
😄 Happy
😢 Sad
😠 Angry
😟 Anxious
😌 Content
😎 Confident
😌 Relieved
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
Finances
Select all that apply:
I am financially dependent on the other parent
I am not sure if I can afford to pay my own bills
I don’t know how to prepare a budget
I don’t think I can stick to a budget
I have never paid a bill – the other parent took care of it for us
I want to explore if I can reasonably afford the legal fees
I am ready to learn and challenge myself
I am looking for resources- I really want to keep the costs of this divorce as low as possible
I am looking for strategies to help me cope with my current situation
I know that with a little help, I can be financially comfortable and independent
I have no issues with my financial situation
Other
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
Spiritual
Select all that apply:
It is against my religion to divorce
I was raised to believe that marriage is sacred
No one in my family has divorced- I don’t want to be the 1st
I am losing my faith and it scares me
I worry that some family members will disown me
I am out of balance. Family is important to me but my freedom is more important.
I am wondering if I can maintain my faith and remain happily married
I always wanted to stand by my marriage vows
I feel that that other parent and I are not in the same places anymore
My spirituality is not an area of concern right now
Other
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
Career
Select all that apply:
I am worried I will lose my job if my boss finds out
I don’t know if it makes sense to keep this job or if should take something else
I wonder how I could handle my work hours and obligations when they interfere with my new home life as a single parent
I wonder if I can be a solo parent and perform well at work
I am a stay at home mom/dad- I need a job: where do I start, career vs job
I need to drop my work hours/travel so that I am more available to my children
I am considering whether this job will allow for the flexibility I need in my home life
I am used to having help - without a 2nd pair of hands, I am not sure how I can do this
I feel that that other parent and I are not in the same places anymore
I am not concerned about my career or job situation
Other
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This is a preliminary question to understand what you are going through. During your strategy session with a Divorce Coach, you will have the opportunity to explain or elaborate on your feelings and challenges.
SHOW ME THE
ASSESSMENT RESULTS
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We are delighted to have various options and services that are tailor made for you, while remaining aligned with your needs:
Your email:
Email
Your name:
First name (or nickname)
Please use a pen name if you’d like to remain anonymous, from this moment
Your phone number:
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Are you a stay at home Mom or Dad?
Please select
Yes
No
What is personal income bracket?
Lower than $60k
$60k-$80,000
$80,000-$100,000
$100,000-$200,000
$200,000+?
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Why are we asking this question? To offer you the most optimal results, we have created programs that satisfies each income bracket.
What is your Occupation?
Employee
Small Business Owner
Medium Business Owner
Large Business Owner
Junior Manager
Senior Manager
Senior Executive
Other
If you are you a stay at home Mom or Dad with no income, what is your family income?
Under $100,000
$100,000- $200,000
$200, 000- $300,000
$300,000- $400,000
$400,000 +
Other
Why are we asking this question? To offer you the most optimal results, we have created programs that satisfies each income bracket.
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We are delighted to have various options and services that are tailor made for you, while remaining aligned with your needs.
HERE ARE THE RESULTS OF YOUR MINI SELF ASSESSMENT!
Please note that a PDF document with your results will automatically be downloaded to your device with a file named "Irooze self assessment results", after you click to the Next page.
You will also have access to schedule your free Zoom call with a Divorce Specialist by clicking on the "I AM READY" button. We are delighted to help you craft a tailor-made strategic plan, learn which professioanls can best help you and, provide you with guidance and direction.
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Based on your responses to the mini self assessment, these are the priority areas that need to be addressed in order for you to move
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in your life.
Tips on how to read this illustration:
This is a preliminary view of your current situation. If the outcome is different from what you thought or expected, this is normal. It is possible to under estimate the number of challenges you may be experiencing while, at other times, you may over estimate. Divorce is a transition which requires guidance, direction and support.
Here are some tips on reading the results of your mini self assessment. Imagine this illustration demonstrates the puzzle of your life. Every piece must fit together in order to see a clear picture of your life (your current situation):
If the piece is colored: you have indicated that you need help
If the piece is not colored: it doesn’t seem to be a problem area of concern at the moment
Our Founder, Ravit Rose’s favourite quote is:
“We don’t know how to marry and we certainly don’t know how to divorce either, Until now.”
There are skills and strategies that must be learned and emotions that need to be addressed.
This is what we do.
With this snapshot, you can now plan your next steps with our complimentary 20 minutes strategy call with a Divorce Coach. All of our programs are tailor-made for you based on your needs and requirements.
I’m ready!
Our data and research have indicated that when parents are guided and directed towards a solution, the individual can solve problem areas more quickly and efficiently. At Irooze, we are solution-oriented. We believe that there is a solution to every single problem, challenge, fear, worry or anxiety. Sometimes, all it takes is speaking to the right person or taking a specific action. We are here to help you throughout your entire divorce process.
If you are ready to take a deeper dive, the full assessment is available for our app members and has been carefully crafted to have you take a closer look into each of the 7 pillars in your life, track your progress regularly and, provide you with the assistance to find the most appropriate solution for you.
With a 1-hour coaching strategy call, we will provide you with a step-by-step plan on how to get started:
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Based on your responses, these are some resources and solutions you will find in our app to help you address your areas of concern:
Self assessments
Did you find this assessment useful? As a member, you will have access to more substantial assessments with monthly check-ins to capture your progress on a regular basis. We want to assist you and ensure that you are moving forward in rebuilding your life.
Communities
24/7 access to engage with like-minded parents whether you’re feeling alone, isolated, or just wanting to talk and share your thoughts while remaining 100% confidential (that’s right, you can stay completely anonymous!)
Coaches & Experts
Our vetted & unbiased divorce coaches and experts are here to provide you with support, guidance and direction.
Access to 1:1 coaching or communicate in a group setting.
Bite-sized courses
We know that you may want to learn a new skill or strategy quickly and on your own.
Realistic solutions in 90 minutes or less.
MYTHS VS FACTS:
I only need a lawyer and therapist.
A lawyer and therapist may be important parts of your divorce team, but they cannot possibly give you everything you need throughout the entire divorce process.
A lawyer is expensive, focused only on a narrow part of the problem, and (it has to be said) that some are motivated to keep you in court.
A therapist is focused on your past, emotional trauma and behaviors. They are not trained to help you through the divorce process.
A Divorce Coach is focused on helps you with decision making, planning your next steps, arm you with coping mechanisms and develop realistic strategies. Instead of giving your power over to a third party like a lawyer, or focusing on the past in therapy, Irooze gives you the power to make fully-informed decisions for your own future.
I just have to figure out custody, money, and legal stuff. That’s it.
Separation and divorce affect every aspect of your life. There’s much more to it than parents first assume- you must now carefully craft and rebuild your new life.
Irooze guides parents through the 7 pillars of divorce: finance, emotional, parenting, career, spiritual, physical and mindset. Without holistic guidance, many parents end up confused and overwhelmed just when they think they have custody, money, and legal agreements figured out.
I’ll get this done in a couple months and then move on.
Depending on where you are in the process, you may just want to get everything over with and pretend it never happened.
However, divorce is a five-step process that on average takes women three years and men five years to complete until life stabilizes.
The faster you go, the more decisions you will regret. This is a process. It simply takes time and proper guidance.
Divorce has to be expensive.
Almost everyone believes this, but it doesn’t have to be true. There are many options to keep the costs low. People simply aren’t aware of them.
One of the main purposes of Irooze is to help you find the resources available to you so you can complete your divorce with financial stability.
I’ll just ask my friend/cousin/neighbor for their advice.
We all need our friends and family for support, especially during difficult times like separation or divorce. However, while your friends can be there to cheer you up and help you move, they are not good resources for divorce information - even if they recently divorced.
Friends and family aren’t impartial. What they tell you will be biased by their affection for you, their feelings towards your spouse and what they would do if they were emotional and making this decision. They also don’t have complete or accurate information on divorce.
Irooze connects you with divorce professionals and an impartial community that can give you complete information and objective advice.
Divorce is hard.
Divorce is as hard as you make it. When you walk blindly into this unknown territory, you will face many trials & errors that will cost you greatly.
Every coach and professional in Irooze is experienced and qualified to provide you with guidance, support and direction to ensure that you spend least amount of time, avoid the unnecessary stress and reduce your legal costs.
Divorce will destroy my children.
Many parents believe that all divorces ruin children and their childhood. This is not true.
Irooze helps you carefully crafted your divorce to focus on everyone’s well being in a mature, sane and reasonable manner. This will allow you to leave behind a divorce legacy that will make your children proud and pleased.
We will always be enemies.
Many believe that divorce equals war. Anyone who thinks this way is either coming from a place of fear, worry or heard too many horror stories.
Irooze is changing the narrative of divorce. This old way of thinking is the exact reason families ends up broke and broken.
What would you like to do with your results. Shall we create an action plan?
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I am ready for a deeper exploration. I would like to schedule a 1-hour paid session:
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